Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Review of Baker’s Mentoring—A Complex Relationship

Barker, E. (2006). Mentoring—A complex relationship. Journal of the American Academy of Nurse Practitioners, 18(2), 56-61.

Baker’s Abstract: To address the process of mentoring the advanced practice nurse (APN) and provide suggestions for the formulation, implementation, and termination of the relationship. Data sources: Research studies from nursing as well as other disciplines and personal experience as a mentor and protégé . Conclusions: Mentoring is a dynamic and complex relationship that can support growth, increase synergy, and develop ways to succeed as an APN. Before entering into the relationship, care should be taken to assure compatibility between the mentor and the protégé´ . Major pitfalls include poor communication patterns and inadequate identification of objectives. Keys for repair or termination of the relationship include personal introspection, honest and nonblaming communication, and development of alternative support networks. Implications for practice: Successful mentoring relationships improve professional growth, competency, and productivity. They also form the basis for ongoing preparation of a new generation of APNs.

The Author believes that this article is important to students of Adult Learning due to the specific focus of mentoring as a tool for creating a learning environment and career advancement. This article focuses on a unique profession, Advanced Practice Nurses (APN) or Nurse Practitioners (NP). Unique because they were working as RNs while continuing their formal education to become APNs; crossing the lines of what Human Resource Development (HRD) defines as traditional learning and adult learning. For those studying Adult Learning Baker’s article offers insight into a profession that begins clinical practice as a novice, but with the work history of an expert. So how does someone who has practical experience and formal education enter into a profession and continue the momentum of learning? Baker expresses the benefits of mentorship as one possibility. She explores the definition of the mentoring relationship and how to build a foundation for this arrangement. This article is of particular interest to the author due to its relative continent to his profession as a recruiter for Advanced Practice Nurses, and as Baker points out, "Although mentoring of the undergraduate nursing

student has been well explored, the mentoring of the advanced practice nurse (APN), particularly after graduation, is not well documented in the literature (2006)."

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Baker begins her article by stating, "Mentoring is a process designed to bridge the gap between the educational process and the real-world experience." She provides some history of mentoring, pointing out that one of the first descriptions of the mentoring process is found in Homer’s Odyssey where the transformation from boy to man of Odysseus’ son, Telemachus, is lead by Athene and is used as an allegory for the process of maturing and taking command of difficult situations (Baker references Lattimore, 1965). Mentoring is further described as a planned relationship between an experienced person and one who has less experience for the purpose of achieving identified outcomes (Dorsey & Baker, 2004). Baker (2006) states that, "In nursing, mentoring has been defined as a situation that promotes personal and professional development in which general well-being is enhanced, synergy is increased, new insights are gained."

Baker justifies the need for her article by stating that in nursing mentoring is often not a formalized process, and referenced that Marquis and Houston (2000) contend most nurses will be lucky if they have one or two true mentors in their entire career. A study by Freeman (2004), referenced by Baker, of 565 APNs entering into the clinical setting after graduation; only 35% reported they had been assigned mentors, 6% were sought by a mentor, 23% of the APNs sought a mentor, and17% indicated that they entered into a mentoring relationship by ‘‘chance.’’ One interesting fact of the study showed that 19% of the APN’s were unable to identify the genesis of the mentoring relationship. And yet, despite the low percentages of APNs who began their practice in a mentoring relationship the study proved these mentored APNs were, "better able to meet the primary care system’s productivity demands (Freeman 2004)."

Baker then describes a mentoring relationship as being different than the relationship with a preceptor or physician consultant. She states that the later two are more short-term in duration and differ in the overall purpose of the relationship. Although commonalities do exist such as a neophyte learning from one with greater experience, the mentoring relationship is said by Baker to be one where a APN learns a particular procedure or skill and then moves on to another preceptor to learn yet another aspect of clinical practice. And, the physician consultant is said by Baker to be, in most cases, a regulatory agreement for the purpose of state compliance and not a relationship of directing one practitioner to become more advanced in clinical skills.

The article then discusses the need to set up proper expectations for the mentoring relationship and matching a mentee and mentor. An important element of the expectation for

success is that the mentoring relationship is a bidirectional undertaking that should include the review of influences of a mentoring dyad created in 1983 by D. E. Kram. The dyad’s critical influences are, interpersonal expertise, ability to communicate, and listening skills of

both parties. Baker’s article explains how one might go about preparing for a successful mentoring relationship maintaining that communication and one’s attitude are key. She summarizes that skillful communication, mutual commitment, and a willingness to support mutual growth are important components of successful relationships. Baker takes the discussion a bit further by addressing what to do if the mentoring relationship has become problematic. Outlining the major pitfalls as poor matching of the dyad, lack of expertise, poor communication patterns and inappropriate identification of the objectives and expectation for the relationship by either the mentor or mentee.

In her conclusion, Baker states, "mentoring is a dynamic and complex relationship that has the potential for increased synergy and successful personal and professional development." But she warns that before entering into the partnership the practitioners should identify and mutually agreed upon expectations.

From the author’s perspective there are many practical applications within this article. It is written by an Advanced Practice Nurse who is a the director of a family nurse practitioner program at the Ohio State University College of Nursing in Columbus, OH and from the perspective of one who has practiced in a clinical setting as a novice and is still practicing in the clinic today. Her perspectives enhance the practical applications of her report, starting with informing the reader of what a mentorship is to a Nurse Practitioner and how it is not a preceptorship or a physician consultant relationship. Baker’s defining characteristics are incredibility helpful in determining if the relationship has been established in the model of a mentorship stating, mentoring relationship is a, "bidirectional undertaking," with defined expectations for the outcome of the relationship. Addressing that it is not short-term in nature, yet mentorships are not appropriate for environments where continued employment is desired.

Baker’s article is one of the best overviews of mentorship reviewed by the author, in that she covers the relationship from start to finish and what is needed to build the relationship in the right way. Baker’s complete assessment even includes a section devoted to identifying a mentorship that is not working, and what to do about it in order to salvage a positive relationship and any desired results from the mentoring relationship.

Perhaps one of the most beneficial aspects of Baker’s article is that she identifies the role of both the mentor and the mentee, describing the attributes of each and how both mentors and mentees can contribute to the success or failure of the mentorship. The author found Baker’s discussion of matching the mentor and mentee using the dyad. She outlines the characteristics or attitudes to avoid in mentors and mentees. This information is excellent for practitioners of Adult Learning to identify the red flags of mentors or mentees who have the wrong attitudes or perceive the relationship for something other than what it is meant for.

Lastly the author believes that Baker could have improved upon the article by providing some of her own case studies describing a situation where a mentorship was a success and another where it was a failure. Baker could build upon her efforts by offering original research and reporting her own findings more that referencing the works of others.

Baker does offer a foundation for many opportunities for HRD professionals and Advanced Practitioners. Research opportunities could include effects of mentorships on the learning environment, the success ratios of practitioners who are mentored compared to those who were not mentored, and perhaps even further exploration of the differences between the relationships of mentorships and that preceptorship and physician consultation.

by Blake Moser

Advanced Practice Recruiters

888-812-3452 ext. 707

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Sunday, March 21, 2010

Why do girls go to Mainstream Porn from Alt Porn?

I’m really curious to know why some girls “sellout” for lack of a better word and go from being alt porn girls to changing the way they look and dress so they can be mainstream porn workers.

I can understand if change your style because it was a phase you were going through or you just change your style.

But I’m wondering about the girls who change their look for work.Sort of the way you have people who hide their tattoos or piercings or whatnot for a professional job.

The thing that makes me curious is I just wonder if they get something out of the change from a business standpoint.

To me it would make it harder to go from a alt porn worker to a mainstream one.It’s sort of the big fish in a big sea thing.

Like if I decided I’d make mainstream dolls and have to get into competing with Barbie.Yes in theory you could stand to make more from it but the chance for it to happen is almost non existent.

Of course I’m sure it is better for some girls from a business standpoint because most alt anything or anybody is broke ass and I’m sure mainstream porn at least pays girl enough to almost pay half the rent that month.

Again I’m just curious about why some girls make the change.

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Saturday, March 20, 2010

Trying To Get Out A Rant While Cartoons Distract

As my son watches Fairly Oddparents, I try my best to stay focused on the computer screen.  It is very distracting, Vikki the babysitter has an evil laugh that pops out frantically every few seconds, as she destroys the town of Dimsdale.  She becomes mayor because she loses her job as a babysitter, then becomes president and then runs the world.  So now I take it that Timmy is going to wish her to be his babysitter again… poor kid.  And that is what he did, for the good of many!

This is how easily distracted I am.  What the hell was this blog going to be about?

Oh yeah, I went to the clinic last Wednesday (for the maternity appointment).  It was a long day.  They took blood and urine and (cue evil music) did the dreaded “womanly check up”.   They asked me so many questions, of which some I did not know the answer so all I could say was not as far as I know…. and shrug a little bit.  I think the worst of all was the glucose test.  They hand you a little bottle of syrupy liquid and tell you to chug it… and then an hour later they check your blood sugar.  Well I passed that test, barely.  So I take it that my intake of sugar might have to be monitored, because I love me some sugar!!!  Basically the appointment went pretty well.

I have been working, babysitting for my sister in law.  Two kids– might as well practice since I will have another at the end of this year.  My son isn’t in school yet because his birth certificate still has not made it to me, I am trying to patiently wait for the mail. Not that I have much of a choice, but these hormones make everything that much more intolerable!!! argh!  The craziest emotional shit that’s happened so far is my reaction to running out of sugar for my coffee… I wont elaborate, I will only say it was not good.  Luckily, my logic does not completely elude me.  I manage to calm myself before I look like a complete idiot.  But I am not sure how long I can keep the little hormonal buggers from ruling.  It’s like fighting the dark side (cue Darth Vader breathing sound).

Now Spongebob Squarepants dances across the television screen while Mr. Crabs is freaking out about a penny.  I find it hilarious that this show is so popular.  So while I hear the screams and singing of Spongebob, my family already starts asking me for favors.  As soon as they wake up, that is what I hear…. People certainly have no shame around here.  The funniest, and I don’t mean funny haha, is that I never get any favors from these people.  Here is an example, I had an expensive coin collection, one which I had asked my sister to keep an eye on while I was gone, and now its missing.  Favor incomplete.  Same with all of my stuff that I left here, its trashed.  My car, destroyed.  And even though all this has happened they still expect me to do shit for them.  This does not compute.  Ha! I would if they have shown some sort of, I dunno, respect for any of my shit… maybe then I would be willing to help.  And yes, I know that being this way out of spite is not very nice of me.  But this is my character, I treat others the way they treat me.  For as long as I have been here, I have put money into these people here, helped with gas and bought food and such, and no fucking gratitude.  So forgive me if I am not that excited about helping anyone anymore.

I now have more on my plate than I expected, and cannot be bending over for everyone when I have so much to think about.  My family is growing, I have to be able to take care of us, my guy is working and we are trying to get our life together.  Don’t get me wrong I would love to help, simply because I like helping as long as people appreciate it.  But I can not keep giving and giving while it takes away from me and my family.  I have these things to think about.  Not only that, we have drama to deal with, all the while trying to keep the peace with certain individuals so that the fighting does not commence.  We, my guy and I, have things to work on. We are getting our vehicle fixed, have parole fees, have a baby momma on the side to keep the peace with for the sake of the child, have a baby on the way, are both working and trying to save… WE HAVE A LOT MORE THAN ANYONE CARES TO TAKE NOTICE OF.  So fuck those that want to be selfish, its our turn to be selfish to get our life together.  And then, when we get on our feet, we will think about sharing the goodness.  IS THAT SO FUCKING WRONG????

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Sunday, March 14, 2010

Well ... Well... Mr. Napolean Rodgers....BVF aka Black Vagina Finder

It seems as if the notorious BVF (Black Vagina Finder) from GFY.com doesn’t hide as well as he would like. This information has fallen into my hands through one of his trusted GFY buddies who was dying to sell him out. It seems as Napolean seems to think that since Dirty D will be facing charges for shooting a 17 year old that he will now own the bottom of the barrel sites. Guess what Napolean? The same person who did not like Dirty D does not like you either. Oh yeah. Say Hi to Bill Cosby for me when he sues your wannabe gangsta ass for using his trademarked image in conjunction with false endorsement.

Oh wait…. lemme share the information first.

Our fuck up contestant of the week currently hails from Milwaukee, WI and claims to be a 1993 graduate of Howard University. Napoleon hails from the shit hole known as Buchtel High School where he claims have graduated with a diploma in 1989. This thug contestant currently has an upcoming birthday of May 6, 1971. When he is not working on his “street cred” in the hood or videotaping himself having sex with women that no one else ever considered while intoxicated or for obscenely large amounts of money he keeps himself occupied honing his skills in the criminal world.

Let’s take a look at this contestant’s rap sheet.

Wow, that Howard degree is paying off big time there Kanye. Drug charge with intent to distribute. Way to raise that street cred there homey!

Nice to see the drug theme continue! Keep it up New Jack!!!!

How does one get criminal with a windshield? Congrats on that one playa. I think Ike Turner would be shocked with that one.

Nothing raises street cred like a big of helping of domestic violence. Combined with the previous drug charges, this ain’t no wannabe balla, this is straight up pussified poser!

Ohhh use of former owner plates. You cheap fuck. I thought you was real homey. Making the big bucks, being “king of your niche”. Banging broads that could not get laid in a prison full of lifers!!! You slippin dawg!

Now no street certified thug would be complete without a drug abuse card. Man homey, some playahs rock the ganja but it looks like the ganja rocked you! What a fine example you have set for Nalani and Nia. How will you feel if they one day grow up and end on some other brotha’s black vagina finder site? I am sure you are already a disappointment to Sondra and Sterling. Yeah right about now you are saying “What the fuck? How did homey get all this info?”  Like Dirty D, you got enemies Yo!!!!

Play on Player! Next time keep your mouth shut and don’t try defending accused child pornographers. I suggest you get those records in order because you already have one violation in not putting 2257 compliant information.

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Saturday, March 13, 2010

NEW JDM PACKAGE RECIEVED!!

I have been REALLY out of the EBBRO JDM Diecast scene for awhile. But I finally made a HUGE catch up purchase last week. Surprisingly the package arrived in less than 10 days. I spent most of my day yesterday oogling over them and photographing them. For now you can have a family shot. But shortly each individual car will be posted.

EBBRO LINE UP 3-12 (1)

EBBRO LINE UP 3-12 (2)

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The infiltration begins Part 3

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Thursday, March 11, 2010

You wanted the truth....

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