You asked and I’ll answer! Here are the answers to the questions you left for me over the last day or so!
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From My Mom:
~ Do you ever plan to visit Oregon again?? Eventually. I need new tires and I’m not sure my poor car could make a trip like that right now. It will probably die soon and I don’t think a long trip is a good idea.
From Jess:
~ Do you plan to have any more kids? A few months ago I would have said no. But in the last couple of weeks the idea has been floating around and Daniel is not helping in discouraging that idea. As of this second? No, I’m happy with my two boys. But there needs to be some discussions on what we plan on doing.
~ If money wasn’t consideration would you have more kids? If I decided that yes I wanted more kids then I would definitely wait until financially we were more secure.
~ When you were younger and thinking about your life, did you think this is how it would be? Not at all. Mostly because I would have never guessed I’d marry an ex-con/drug dealer/thief/crazy man and I definitely never saw myself having children. I never liked kids and I still don’t like other peoples’ kids at all. I didn’t picture living in Idaho in a smaller town. But honestly, I didn’t really know where I’d end up. In my high school days and shortly after, I was more worried about making it through each day rather than what my future held. I was lucky to wake up the next morning not having killed someone.
~ What did you want to be when you were growing up? I don’t quite remember. I’m sure my mom would remember my different aspirations. I can’t think of one particular thing. In fact, I didn’t know what I wanted to be when I grew up until two years ago!
~ What is your favorite “adult toy”? Right now, it’s a good ‘ol fashioned dildo. Nothing fancy. It does it’s job. Now, ask me again in a couple weeks when I start reviewing sex toys and my answer may change, lol. I prefer things that Daniel and I can use together.
~ what is your favorite adult beverage? Meukow Cognac with a bit of juice or Coke. Or I really dig Tequila Sunrise’s. And Jack ‘n Coke is always good.
From Randi:
~ Do you think that anal sex is “icky”, or okay? It’s not that I think it’s ‘icky’ but it’s not for me. I have friends that have tried it but I doubt that I’ll be trying it any time soon. We have talked about it but even Daniel is not too interested.
From JM:
~ What is your ‘ideal’ life vision? What do you picture when you picture yourself being content with life? Hmm, good one. Being content with life would be us having a home on a piece of land far enough from town that we don’t have neighbors but close enough that I can go to Costco once a week. Where we can let the kids play outside with Tango and not worry about anyone getting them because we have no one close. Both of us having the Ford trucks we want. Daniel owning a couple semis and working for himself. Me having a thriving photography business even if I don’t get famous. The kids in a great school with part-time jobs learning responsibility. Being able to take off and go to a NASCAR race whenever we feel like it. I guess I want a simple country life. I don’t have to be rich. I don’t need a lot of things. I just want life to be simple without too many complications. Also, not waking up some mornings hoping to make it through the day. I want to be healthy mentally and emotionally. I don’t know that it will ever happen but a life without panic attacks, anxiety, and depression would be great.
From Starr:
~ how many times a week do you feel the urge to run away? At least once a week. More if Daniel’s been gone awhile. I ain’t gonna lie, it gets rough doing this by myself. Sometimes I sit there and think how much easier it would be if I could just run off and do what I want. But then reality slaps me in the face and I know I could never leave my boys behind.
~ do you think your marriage will last forever? Of course I hope it will. But do I think it will really happen? I feel that I have a fairly good shot at it lasting forever. We are very open with each other about our expectations and what we want from each other and our life together. It would take something big for us to walk away from each other. I think him being a trucker and us living our lives the way we do makes us stronger. We don’t have time for the bullshit. If somethings wrong we fix it NOW and not wait until we both blow up. that may mean many a fight on the phone but it is what works for us. But yes, I see us growing old together. I also know that Daniel would not just up and leave. Knowing that I have a husband that is bent on working through things makes me feel more secure in our future. I think getting together and getting married the way we did also cements the fact that this is for life. We were (and still are) so sure that we were made for each other and have never questioned it.
~ if you won the lotto & after taxes you had 5 million dollars, what are the first 5 things you would do? (not necessarily buying things either). We’ve discussed this many times, lol. I would put at least half into the bank in a high interest account in order to live off that interest should we decide to quit working. Then we’d buy our dream house (or have it built) on a minimum of 100 acres in the smallest town that is within an hours drive of Costco and Target. Then we would buy our trucks we want. After that I think Daniel would buy his toys (4 wheelers, boats, dirt bikes, etc) for him and the kids. Lastly, I’d buy no less than 3 blue pitbulls and have a whole herd of them!
From Angelia:
~ What made you start a blog? I don’t remember why I started it in the first place actually. I was a part of a mothers forum and it seemed like a few of them had started a blog. I’m big into journaling and I figured a blog would be the next step. Plus it would allow me to meet new people and make some friends. Along the way I have met so many great people and it’s hard to believe that it’s been as long as it has! It’s become an outlet for so many things. It has helped launch my photography business, chronicle my weight loss (or lack thereof), helped me open up about things I had never really shared before, and shown the true side of being a trucker wife. I have had times where I’ve wanted to shut it down because of the crap and the stalkers. But in the end, this blog is for me.
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